Everyone knows that there is a common saying about the way to a man's heart is through his stomach. But why is there no such set phrase for the way to a woman's heart? It may be because the former phrase was coined a long time ago.
At this time, the world was a far more sexist place than it is today, and women were truly viewed as lower or lesser. This changed significantly in the second world war, because while the men were overseas being shot and rotting their feet off, the women were at home running the country.
However, the world still remained sexist, so perhaps it was viewed as important to get a man to love you, and for men, they didn't really worry whether a woman loved them or not.
Nowadays, although the world is still sexist, and young girls are still forced into a certain way of life or set of beliefs about their place in the world or hierarchy of people, it may be worth asking the question what is the way to a woman's heart.
Gifts for girls may be one way to woo a girl, but may not change or heartfelt feelings. Valentine's Day Presents may please a gold-digger or money-grabber, but such females do not understand love. When women are asked in alleged surveys, they usually say they like a man who can make them laugh, or cook for them, or simply make them feel secure.
The latter seems the most likely, as women are genetically or biologically and physically built to enjoy the feeling of security. This is not a sexist comment but a fact that almost all women would agree with. However in surveys, they are unlikely to say that they purely choose a male partner due to the size of his genitalia, are they? That admission would be seen as crude, and destroy any last remaining shred of dignity they have. Some gift ideas in particular may be a way to woo these women though - toys and games come to mind.
At this time, the world was a far more sexist place than it is today, and women were truly viewed as lower or lesser. This changed significantly in the second world war, because while the men were overseas being shot and rotting their feet off, the women were at home running the country.
However, the world still remained sexist, so perhaps it was viewed as important to get a man to love you, and for men, they didn't really worry whether a woman loved them or not.
Nowadays, although the world is still sexist, and young girls are still forced into a certain way of life or set of beliefs about their place in the world or hierarchy of people, it may be worth asking the question what is the way to a woman's heart.
Gifts for girls may be one way to woo a girl, but may not change or heartfelt feelings. Valentine's Day Presents may please a gold-digger or money-grabber, but such females do not understand love. When women are asked in alleged surveys, they usually say they like a man who can make them laugh, or cook for them, or simply make them feel secure.
The latter seems the most likely, as women are genetically or biologically and physically built to enjoy the feeling of security. This is not a sexist comment but a fact that almost all women would agree with. However in surveys, they are unlikely to say that they purely choose a male partner due to the size of his genitalia, are they? That admission would be seen as crude, and destroy any last remaining shred of dignity they have. Some gift ideas in particular may be a way to woo these women though - toys and games come to mind.
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